Figures after I posted the above, tweaked my search in elastic and found the cause of this node failing:
Feb 2, 2021 @ 13:44:01.000 [425463.690361] [ 939] 0 939 5039 768 57344 0 -1000 systemd-udevd
Feb 2, 2021 @ 13:44:01.000 [425463.690369] [ 1546] 0 1546 70061 4154 90112 0 -1000 multipathd
Feb 2, 2021 @ 13:44:01.000 [425463.690375] [ 1607] 113 1607 1783 431 49152 0 0 rpcbind
Feb 2, 2021 @ 13:44:01.000 [425463.690381] [ 1691] 100 1691 6619 574 77824 0 0 systemd-network
Feb 2, 2021 @ 13:44:01.000 [425463.690386] [ 1694] 101 1694 6085 1396 90112 0 0 systemd-resolve
Feb 2, 2021 @ 13:44:01.000 [425463.690391] [ 1726] 103 1726 4623 632 57344 0 -900 dbus-daemon
Feb 2, 2021 @ 13:44:01.000 [425463.690396] [ 1729] 0 1729 20236 457 57344 0 0 irqbalance
Feb 2, 2021 @ 13:44:01.000 [425463.690401] [ 1730] 0 1730 7274 2305 90112 0 0 networkd-dispat
Feb 2, 2021 @ 13:44:01.000 [425463.690406] [ 1732] 104 1732 57861 509 86016 0 0 rsyslogd
Feb 2, 2021 @ 13:44:01.000 [425463.690411] [ 1735] 0 1735 11814 815 118784 0 0 sssd
Feb 2, 2021 @ 13:44:01.000 [425463.690416] [ 1736] 0 1736 3094 557 57344 0 0 wpa_supplicant
Feb 2, 2021 @ 13:44:01.000 [425463.690420] [ 1745] 0 1745 448262 5580 512000 0 0 filebeat
Feb 2, 2021 @ 13:44:01.000 [425463.690425] [ 1752] 0 1752 2181 221 61440 0 0 apiservice-kick
Feb 2, 2021 @ 13:44:01.000 [425463.690430] [ 1762] 0 1762 2082 433 53248 0 0 run-cluster-age
Feb 2, 2021 @ 13:44:01.000 [425463.690435] [ 1765] 112 1765 3064 506 49152 0 0 chronyd
Feb 2, 2021 @ 13:44:01.000 [425463.690440] [ 1781] 0 1781 2181 498 57344 0 0 bash
Feb 2, 2021 @ 13:44:01.000 [425463.690445] [ 1782] 112 1782 1042 434 49152 0 0 chronyd
Feb 2, 2021 @ 13:44:01.000 [425463.690450] [ 1952] 0 1952 3051 712 61440 0 -1000 sshd
Feb 2, 2021 @ 13:44:01.000 [425463.690455] [ 2040] 0 2040 59400 587 102400 0 0 accounts-daemon
Feb 2, 2021 @ 13:44:01.000 [425463.690460] [ 2042] 0 2042 2084 369 49152 0 0 cron
Feb 2, 2021 @ 13:44:01.000 [425463.690465] [ 2043] 0 2043 4175 542 69632 0 0 systemd-logind
Feb 2, 2021 @ 13:44:01.000 [425463.690469] [ 2048] 0 2048 898 409 49152 0 0 atd
Feb 2, 2021 @ 13:44:01.000 [425463.690474] [ 2063] 0 2063 1709 357 53248 0 0 agetty
Feb 2, 2021 @ 13:44:01.000 [425463.690479] [ 2068] 0 2068 26953 2470 106496 0 0 unattended-upgr
Feb 2, 2021 @ 13:44:01.000 [425463.690484] [ 2069] 0 2069 1328 283 45056 0 0 agetty
Feb 2, 2021 @ 13:44:01.000 [425463.690489] [ 2070] 0 2070 58234 482 94208 0 0 polkitd
Feb 2, 2021 @ 13:44:01.000 [425463.690494] [ 2162] 0 2162 7710 4161 98304 0 0 python3
Feb 2, 2021 @ 13:44:01.000 [425463.690499] [ 2163] 0 2163 5629 3084 81920 0 0 python3
Feb 2, 2021 @ 13:44:01.000 [425463.690504] [ 2251] 0 2251 480 108 40960 0 0 none
Feb 2, 2021 @ 13:44:01.000 [425463.690509] [ 5589] 0 5589 443080 8404 393216 0 0 containerd
Feb 2, 2021 @ 13:44:01.000 [425463.690514] [ 5908] 0 5908 2209159 1726964 14487552 0 0 kube-apiserver
Feb 2, 2021 @ 13:44:01.000 [425463.690519] [ 5957] 0 5957 185307 2803 196608 0 -999 kube-proxy
Feb 2, 2021 @ 13:44:01.000 [425463.690524] [ 6014] 0 6014 498845 16744 585728 0 -999 kubelet
Feb 2, 2021 @ 13:44:01.000 [425463.690529] [ 6628] 0 6628 177781 651 94208 0 1 containerd-shim
Feb 2, 2021 @ 13:44:01.000 [425463.690534] [ 6643] 0 6643 177493 644 90112 0 1 containerd-shim
Feb 2, 2021 @ 13:44:01.000 [425463.690539] [ 6680] 0 6680 177845 617 94208 0 1 containerd-shim
Feb 2, 2021 @ 13:44:01.000 [425463.690544] [ 6688] 65534 6688 200 1 36864 0 -998 pause
Feb 2, 2021 @ 13:44:01.000 [425463.690549] [ 6700] 0 6700 200 1 36864 0 -998 pause
Feb 2, 2021 @ 13:44:01.000 [425463.690554] [ 6716] 0 6716 200 1 36864 0 -998 pause
Feb 2, 2021 @ 13:44:01.000 [425463.690559] [ 6806] 0 6806 177429 678 90112 0 1 containerd-shim
Feb 2, 2021 @ 13:44:01.000 [425463.690563] [ 6828] 0 6828 200 1 36864 0 -998 pause
Feb 2, 2021 @ 13:44:01.000 [425463.690568] [ 6848] 0 6848 177909 868 102400 0 1 containerd-shim
Feb 2, 2021 @ 13:44:01.000 [425463.690573] [ 6867] 0 6867 177429 590 94208 0 1 containerd-shim
Feb 2, 2021 @ 13:44:01.000 [425463.690578] [ 6900] 0 6900 177909 924 114688 0 1 containerd-shim
Feb 2, 2021 @ 13:44:01.000 [425463.690583] [ 6932] 65534 6932 200 1 36864 0 -998 pause
Feb 2, 2021 @ 13:44:01.000 [425463.690588] [ 6955] 0 6955 32490 2229 135168 0 -997 speaker
Feb 2, 2021 @ 13:44:01.000 [425463.690593] [ 7055] 0 7055 177845 941 90112 0 1 containerd-shim
Feb 2, 2021 @ 13:44:01.000 [425463.690598] [ 7304] 0 7304 177845 901 102400 0 1 containerd-shim
Feb 2, 2021 @ 13:44:01.000 [425463.690603] [ 7473] 0 7473 177973 1207 151552 0 1 containerd-shim
Feb 2, 2021 @ 13:44:01.000 [425463.690608] [ 7497] 0 7497 202 9 32768 0 -997 runsvdir
Feb 2, 2021 @ 13:44:01.000 [425463.690613] [ 7587] 0 7587 197 8 32768 0 -997 runsv
Feb 2, 2021 @ 13:44:01.000 [425463.690617] [ 7589] 0 7589 36447 3867 167936 0 -997 calico-node
Feb 2, 2021 @ 13:44:01.000 [425463.690622] [ 7602] 0 7602 177845 936 86016 0 1 containerd-shim
Feb 2, 2021 @ 13:44:01.000 [425463.690627] [ 7705] 0 7705 177909 1005 94208 0 1 containerd-shim
Feb 2, 2021 @ 13:44:01.000 [425463.690632] [ 33411] 0 33411 177781 644 94208 0 1 containerd-shim
Feb 2, 2021 @ 13:44:01.000 [425463.690637] [ 33445] 0 33445 200 1 36864 0 -998 pause
Feb 2, 2021 @ 13:44:01.000 [425463.690642] [ 33477] 0 33477 177845 953 94208 0 1 containerd-shim
Feb 2, 2021 @ 13:44:01.000 [425463.690646] [ 33518] 0 33518 177909 968 94208 0 1 containerd-shim
Feb 2, 2021 @ 13:44:01.000 [425463.690651] [ 33596] 0 33596 177845 966 94208 0 1 containerd-shim
Feb 2, 2021 @ 13:44:01.000 [425463.690656] [1091648] 0 1091648 201905 3689 307200 0 0 kube-controller
Feb 2, 2021 @ 13:44:01.000 [425463.690661] [1091668] 0 1091668 186071 2807 208896 0 0 kube-scheduler
Feb 2, 2021 @ 13:44:01.000 [425463.690666] [1140534] 0 1140534 185032 903 143360 0 0 kubectl
Feb 2, 2021 @ 13:44:01.000 [425463.690672] [1169628] 0 1169628 514 100 40960 0 0 apt.systemd.dai
Feb 2, 2021 @ 13:44:01.000 [425463.690677] [1169632] 0 1169632 514 321 45056 0 0 apt.systemd.dai
Feb 2, 2021 @ 13:44:01.000 [425463.690682] [1170502] 0 1170502 9034 627 114688 0 0 sssd_pam
Feb 2, 2021 @ 13:44:01.000 [425463.690687] [1171774] 0 1171774 186662 1024 114688 0 1 runc
Feb 2, 2021 @ 13:44:01.000 [425463.690692] [1172307] 0 1172307 4673 1490 77824 0 0 apt-get
Feb 2, 2021 @ 13:44:01.000 [425463.690697] [1172540] 0 1172540 4673 1033 73728 0 0 apt-get
Feb 2, 2021 @ 13:44:01.000 [425463.690702] [1172702] 0 1172702 514 92 40960 0 0 sh
Feb 2, 2021 @ 13:44:01.000 [425463.690707] [1172703] 0 1172703 514 296 45056 0 0 update-motd-upd
Feb 2, 2021 @ 13:44:01.000 [425463.690712] [1172717] 0 1172717 29671 15570 274432 0 0 apt-check
Feb 2, 2021 @ 13:44:01.000 [425463.690718] [1173211] 0 1173211 514 304 40960 0 0 50-motd-news
Feb 2, 2021 @ 13:44:01.000 [425463.690723] [1173245] 0 1173245 9859 5750 114688 0 0 cloud-id
Feb 2, 2021 @ 13:44:01.000 [425463.690728] [1177217] 0 1177217 8540 498 86016 0 0 cron
Feb 2, 2021 @ 13:44:01.000 [425463.690733] [1177265] 0 1177265 514 305 45056 0 0 sh
Feb 2, 2021 @ 13:44:01.000 [425463.690738] [1177267] 0 1177267 484 287 45056 0 0 run-parts
Feb 2, 2021 @ 13:44:01.000 [425463.690743] [1177404] 0 1177404 514 140 45056 0 0 update-notifier
Feb 2, 2021 @ 13:44:01.000 [425463.690748] [1177405] 0 1177405 3743 1025 65536 0 0 package-data-do
Feb 2, 2021 @ 13:44:01.000 [425463.690753] [1177426] 0 1177426 3667 944 61440 0 0 apport
Feb 2, 2021 @ 13:44:01.000 [425463.690758] [1177432] 0 1177432 142959 2547 163840 0 -900 snapd
Feb 2, 2021 @ 13:44:01.000 [425463.690762] [1177503] 0 1177503 1403 35 45056 0 0 grep
Feb 2, 2021 @ 13:44:01.000 [425463.690768] [1177574] 0 1177574 5524 263 77824 0 0 cron
Feb 2, 2021 @ 13:44:01.000 [425463.690773] [1177592] 0 1177592 7509 534 94208 0 0 sssd_nss
Feb 2, 2021 @ 13:44:01.000 [425463.690778] [1177605] 0 1177605 5342 422 77824 0 0 cron
Feb 2, 2021 @ 13:44:01.000 [425463.690783] [1177609] 0 1177609 4324 378 69632 0 0 sssd_be
Feb 2, 2021 @ 13:44:01.000 [425463.690789] oom-kill:constraint=CONSTRAINT_NONE,nodemask=(null),cpuset=6cb513af3d2b0f8a0330d755ee36f00e1487de82eeed449eae54d931c58c1a34,mems_allowed=0,global_oom,task_memcg=/system.slice/snap.microk8s.daemon-apiserver.service,task=kube-apiserver,pid=5908,uid=0
Feb 2, 2021 @ 13:44:01.000 [425463.690887] Out of memory: Killed process 5908 (kube-apiserver) total-vm:8836636kB, anon-rss:6907856kB, file-rss:0kB, shmem-rss:0kB, UID:0 pgtables:14148kB oom_score_adj:0
Feb 2, 2021 @ 13:44:01.000 [425445.160494] audit: type=1400 audit(1612291422.960:11406): apparmor="ALLOWED" operation="open" profile="/usr/sbin/sssd//null-/usr/libexec/sssd/sssd_be" name="/usr/lib/locale/C.UTF-8/LC_NAME" pid=1177609 comm="sssd_be" requested_mask="r" denied_mask="r" fsuid=0 ouid=0
Feb 2, 2021 @ 13:44:01.000 [425445.449481] audit: type=1400 audit(1612291423.252:11407): apparmor="ALLOWED" operation="open" profile="/usr/sbin/sssd//null-/usr/libexec/sssd/sssd_be" name="/usr/lib/locale/C.UTF-8/LC_PAPER" pid=1177609 comm="sssd_be" requested_mask="r" denied_mask="r" fsuid=0 ouid=0
Feb 2, 2021 @ 13:44:01.000 [425445.794360] audit: type=1400 audit(1612291423.596:11408): apparmor="ALLOWED" operation="open" profile="/usr/sbin/sssd//null-/usr/libexec/sssd/sssd_be" name="/usr/lib/locale/C.UTF-8/LC_MESSAGES/" pid=1177609 comm="sssd_be" requested_mask="r" denied_mask="r" fsuid=0 ouid=0
Feb 2, 2021 @ 13:44:01.000 [425447.270264] kauditd_printk_skb: 5 callbacks suppressed
Feb 2, 2021 @ 13:44:01.000 [425447.270269] audit: type=1400 audit(1612291425.072:11414): apparmor="ALLOWED" operation="open" profile="/usr/sbin/sssd//null-/usr/libexec/sssd/sssd_be" name="/usr/lib/locale/C.UTF-8/LC_CTYPE" pid=1177609 comm="sssd_be" requested_mask="r" denied_mask="r" fsuid=0 ouid=0
Feb 2, 2021 @ 13:44:01.000 [425463.690049] calico-node invoked oom-killer: gfp_mask=0xc2cc0(GFP_KERNEL|__GFP_NOWARN|__GFP_COMP|__GFP_NOMEMALLOC), order=2, oom_score_adj=-997
Feb 2, 2021 @ 13:44:01.000 [425463.690061] CPU: 0 PID: 7589 Comm: calico-node Tainted: G C E 5.4.0-1028-raspi #31-Ubuntu
Feb 2, 2021 @ 13:44:01.000 [425463.690064] Hardware name: Raspberry Pi 4 Model B Rev 1.4 (DT)
Feb 2, 2021 @ 13:44:01.000 [425463.690066] Call trace:
Feb 2, 2021 @ 13:44:01.000 [425463.690077] dump_backtrace+0x0/0x198
Feb 2, 2021 @ 13:44:01.000 [425463.690080] show_stack+0x28/0x38
Feb 2, 2021 @ 13:44:01.000 [425463.690085] dump_stack+0xd8/0x134
Feb 2, 2021 @ 13:44:01.000 [425463.690090] dump_header+0x4c/0x204
Feb 2, 2021 @ 13:44:01.000 [425463.690092] oom_kill_process+0x1d0/0x1d8
Feb 2, 2021 @ 13:44:01.000 [425463.690095] out_of_memory+0xe4/0x2c8
Feb 2, 2021 @ 13:44:01.000 [425463.690100] __alloc_pages_slowpath+0xa2c/0xc00
Feb 2, 2021 @ 13:44:01.000 [425463.690103] __alloc_pages_nodemask+0x2b4/0x330
Feb 2, 2021 @ 13:44:01.000 [425463.690107] kmalloc_order+0x34/0x80
Feb 2, 2021 @ 13:44:01.000 [425463.690110] kmalloc_order_trace+0x40/0x120
Feb 2, 2021 @ 13:44:01.000 [425463.690113] __kmalloc_track_caller+0x31c/0x358
Feb 2, 2021 @ 13:44:01.000 [425463.690118] __kmalloc_reserve.isra.0+0x58/0xa8
Feb 2, 2021 @ 13:44:01.000 [425463.690121] __alloc_skb+0x80/0x198
Feb 2, 2021 @ 13:44:01.000 [425463.690125] netlink_dump+0x294/0x330
Feb 2, 2021 @ 13:44:01.000 [425463.690129] __netlink_dump_start+0x144/0x1c0
Feb 2, 2021 @ 13:44:01.000 [425463.690133] rtnetlink_rcv_msg+0x274/0x358
Feb 2, 2021 @ 13:44:01.000 [425463.690136] netlink_rcv_skb+0x60/0x120
Feb 2, 2021 @ 13:44:01.000 [425463.690139] rtnetlink_rcv+0x2c/0x38
Feb 2, 2021 @ 13:44:01.000 [425463.690142] netlink_unicast+0x188/0x210
Feb 2, 2021 @ 13:44:01.000 [425463.690145] netlink_sendmsg+0x1c0/0x368
Feb 2, 2021 @ 13:44:01.000 [425463.690150] sock_sendmsg+0x58/0x68
Feb 2, 2021 @ 13:44:01.000 [425463.690153] __sys_sendto+0xe8/0x158
Feb 2, 2021 @ 13:44:01.000 [425463.690155] __arm64_sys_sendto+0x34/0x48
Feb 2, 2021 @ 13:44:01.000 [425463.690159] el0_svc_common.constprop.0+0x84/0x218
Feb 2, 2021 @ 13:44:01.000 [425463.690162] el0_svc_handler+0x38/0xa0
Feb 2, 2021 @ 13:44:01.000 [425463.690165] el0_svc+0x10/0x2d4
Feb 2, 2021 @ 13:44:01.000 [425463.690168] Mem-Info:
Feb 2, 2021 @ 13:44:01.000 [425463.690178] active_anon:1835039 inactive_anon:51 isolated_anon:0
Feb 2, 2021 @ 13:44:01.000 [425463.690178] active_file:409 inactive_file:1521 isolated_file:0
Feb 2, 2021 @ 13:44:01.000 [425463.690178] unevictable:4284 dirty:3 writeback:0 unstable:0
Feb 2, 2021 @ 13:44:01.000 [425463.690178] slab_reclaimable:19690 slab_unreclaimable:48240
Feb 2, 2021 @ 13:44:01.000 [425463.690178] mapped:1885 shmem:1190 pagetables:5262 bounce:0
Feb 2, 2021 @ 13:44:01.000 [425463.690178] free:13703 free_pcp:145 free_cma:4526
Feb 2, 2021 @ 13:44:01.000 [425463.690185] Node 0 active_anon:7340156kB inactive_anon:204kB active_file:1636kB inactive_file:6084kB unevictable:17136kB isolated(anon):0kB isolated(file):0kB mapped:7540kB dirty:12kB writeback:0kB shmem:4760kB writeback_tmp:0kB unstable:0kB all_unreclaimable? no
Feb 2, 2021 @ 13:44:01.000 [425463.690195] DMA free:29356kB min:1204kB low:2056kB high:2908kB active_anon:850468kB inactive_anon:4kB active_file:284kB inactive_file:1328kB unevictable:0kB writepending:8kB present:970752kB managed:884912kB mlocked:0kB kernel_stack:0kB pagetables:1020kB bounce:0kB free_pcp:52kB local_pcp:0kB free_cma:18104kB
Feb 2, 2021 @ 13:44:01.000 [425463.690197] lowmem_reserve[]: 0 3008 6947 6947
Feb 2, 2021 @ 13:44:01.000 [425463.690210] DMA32 free:19208kB min:4364kB low:7444kB high:10524kB active_anon:3028772kB inactive_anon:4kB active_file:0kB inactive_file:0kB unevictable:0kB writepending:0kB present:3080192kB managed:3080192kB mlocked:0kB kernel_stack:16kB pagetables:4172kB bounce:0kB free_pcp:0kB local_pcp:0kB free_cma:0kB
Feb 2, 2021 @ 13:44:01.000 [425463.690213] lowmem_reserve[]: 0 0 3939 3939
Feb 2, 2021 @ 13:44:01.000 [425463.690225] Normal free:6248kB min:5712kB low:9744kB high:13776kB active_anon:3460916kB inactive_anon:196kB active_file:1396kB inactive_file:4560kB unevictable:17136kB writepending:4kB present:4194304kB managed:4033656kB mlocked:17136kB kernel_stack:8576kB pagetables:15856kB bounce:0kB free_pcp:528kB local_pcp:248kB free_cma:0kB
Feb 2, 2021 @ 13:44:01.000 [425463.690228] lowmem_reserve[]: 0 0 0 0
Feb 2, 2021 @ 13:44:01.000 [425463.690235] DMA: 187*4kB (UMEC) 126*8kB (UMEC) 78*16kB (UMEC) 40*32kB (UME) 12*64kB (UE) 5*128kB (UEC) 1*256kB (E) 2*512kB (EC) 2*1024kB (EC) 2*2048kB (UE) 4*4096kB (C) = 29500kB
Feb 2, 2021 @ 13:44:01.000 [425463.690265] DMA32: 3200*4kB (UME) 421*8kB (UME) 190*16kB (UME) 0*32kB 0*64kB 0*128kB 0*256kB 0*512kB 0*1024kB 0*2048kB 0*4096kB = 19208kB
Feb 2, 2021 @ 13:44:01.000 [425463.690286] Normal: 352*4kB (UME) 588*8kB (ME) 0*16kB 0*32kB 0*64kB 0*128kB 0*256kB 0*512kB 0*1024kB 0*2048kB 0*4096kB = 6112kB
Feb 2, 2021 @ 13:44:01.000 [425463.690305] 4777 total pagecache pages
Feb 2, 2021 @ 13:44:01.000 [425463.690309] 0 pages in swap cache
Feb 2, 2021 @ 13:44:01.000 [425463.690313] Swap cache stats: add 0, delete 0, find 0/0
Feb 2, 2021 @ 13:44:01.000 [425463.690316] Free swap = 0kB
Feb 2, 2021 @ 13:44:01.000 [425463.690319] Total swap = 0kB
Feb 2, 2021 @ 13:44:01.000 [425463.690322] 2061312 pages RAM
Feb 2, 2021 @ 13:44:01.000 [425463.690325] 0 pages HighMem/MovableOnly
Feb 2, 2021 @ 13:44:01.000 [425463.690327] 61622 pages reserved
Feb 2, 2021 @ 13:44:01.000 [425463.690331] 16384 pages cma reserved
Feb 2, 2021 @ 13:44:01.000 [425463.690334] Tasks state (memory values in pages):
Feb 2, 2021 @ 13:44:01.000 [425463.690337] [ pid ] uid tgid total_vm rss pgtables_bytes swapents oom_score_adj name
Feb 2, 2021 @ 13:44:01.000 [425463.690355] [ 911] 0 911 94436 642 774144 0 -250 systemd-journal
Feb 2, 2021 @ 13:44:02.000 [425464.526002] audit: type=1400 audit(1612291442.328:11415): apparmor="ALLOWED" operation="open" profile="/usr/sbin/sssd//null-/usr/libexec/sssd/sssd_be" name="/usr/lib/aarch64-linux-gnu/ldb/modules/ldb/" pid=1177609 comm="sssd_be" requested_mask="r" denied_mask="r" fsuid=0 ouid=0
Feb 2, 2021 @ 13:44:02.000 [425464.947104] oom_reaper: reaped process 5908 (kube-apiserver), now anon-rss:0kB, file-rss:0kB, shmem-rss:0kB
Feb 2, 2021 @ 13:44:02.000 [425464.989406] systemd[1]: snapd.service: start operation timed out. Terminating.